Journal Entry # 6: LETTER TO MY 14-YEAR OLD SELF

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Dear 14-year old me,

It’s been a while since I’ve taken a look back at you! Now, I have lots and lots of stuff to tell you about!

Remember the time you got bullied because of the pimples and acnes on your face? Or how about that instance where everyone teased you for having a big butt? I saw how your self-esteem had been affected by all these things and how it led you to become ashamed of your own body. I really can’t blame you for that. Body image dissatisfaction had plagued you for a long time. But worry no more! I’m here to tell you that I have now learned to accept these things in a positive way. Don’t fret on those pimples! Through body adornment, like how I use facial wash for men, they will cease to multiply until you achieve a smooth-looking face like what I have now. Still thinking about what other people would say to your big butt? Don’t mind them! Just think of your butt as a blessing from God and an instrument of joy and laughter to others.

Oh! I also remembered that you often feel depressed because people always label you as gay; it always boggles your mind to hear judgments from others based on your actions and how it should conform to the norms of the society. I’m here to tell you that the way you act has nothing to do with how you should perceive your gender. I know you’re not gay! What matters is you know your gender identity. Now, I feel free to act and express myself because I ignore those stereotypes!

Remember these things I have told you. I will now continue to explore our “self” and discover more from it!

Sincerely,
Your 18-year old self

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